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br />     任何人的生命中都会有那么一个人，当他已经成为你的梦萦魂绕的时候，你会希冀他真实的拥抱！

    dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be， because

    you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do。

    做你想做的梦；去你想去的地方；成为你想成为的人：因为你只有一次生命，生命也只会给你一次机会让你圆满你美丽的梦。

    may you have enough happiness to make you sweet， enough trials to make you strong， enough sorrow to keep you human， enough hope to make you happy。

    用甜蜜的心去感受你的幸福；用坚强的心去面对你的失败；用幽默的态度去接受生命中的痛苦；用强大的信心去编织自己的快乐。

    （用幸福去滋养你甜蜜的心；用挫折去打造你坚强的心；用悲伤去孕育你慈爱的心；用希望去培植你幸福的心。）

    always put yourself in others" shoes。 if you feel that it hurts you， it probably hurts the other person， too。

    学会设身处地地为他人着想：当你为什么受伤的时候，别人的心也会为它而哭泣。

    the happiest of people don"t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way。

    人生最快乐的事情并不是你能得到世间最好的一切，而是随遇而安地接受命运所给予你的所有。

    happiness lies for those who cry， those who hurt， those who have searched， and those who have tried， for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives。 love begins with a smile， grows with a kiss and ends with a tear。 the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past， you can"t go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches。

    最快乐的人是那些懂得充分利用他们所能掌握的一切，去享受生活的人。哭过、痛过、追求过、尝试过，仍然对生命充满感激的人，才是真正体会到了快乐的人。爱从一个从微笑开始，在热吻中得以延伸，却随眼泪逝去。营造幸福的未来必须首先忘记过去的苦难。抛弃已经过去的伤痛和失败才能让你在人生的路上走得更加轻松。

    when you were born， you were crying and everyone a肉nd you was smiling。 live your life so that when you die， you"re the one who is smiling and everyone a肉nd you is crying。

    这样度过你的一生：出生时你带着啼哭，而所有簇拥你的人都在微笑；死亡时你带着微笑，所有簇拥你的人却在哭泣。

    2002/7/5

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